CCOB Devotional


February, 14th 2006
What Is Love?

A surgeon once wrote of an encounter he witnessed in a hospital room, which to him defined the meaning of love. He wrote: I stand by the bed where a young woman lies, her face postoperative, her mouth twisted in palsy, clownish. A tiny twig of the facial nerve, the one to the muscles of her mouth, has been severed. She will be thus from now on. The surgeon had followed with religious fervor the curve of her flesh; I promise you that. Nevertheless, to remove the tumor in her cheek, I had to cut the little nerve. Her young husband is in the room. He stands on the opposite side of the bed and together they seem to dwell in the evening lamplight, isolated from me, private. Who are they, I ask myself, he and this wry mouth I have made, who gaze at and touch each other so generously, greedily? The young woman speaks. "Will my mouth always be like this?" she asks. "Yes," I say, "it will. It is because the nerve was cut."

She nods and is silent. But the young man smiles. "I like it," he says, "It is kind of cute." All at once I know who he is. I understand and I lower my gaze… Unmindful, he bends to kiss her crooked mouth and I am so close I can see how he twists his own lips to accommodate to hers, to show her that their kiss still works.


- Dr. Richard Selzer

"Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
-1 Corinthians 13: 4-7



What is love? That is a valid question for the day and age in which we live. Is it what we see portrayed in romance novels, in the movies, or in advertisements? I like what Marjorie Holmes says regarding romance versus love. Maybe this will shed some light on our subject:

Romance is seeking perfection. Love is forgiving faults.

Romance is eager, striving always to appear attractive to each other.
Love is two people who find beauty in each other no matter how they look.

Romance is dancing in the moonlight, gazing deep into desired eyes across a candlelit table. Love is saying, "You're tired honey, I'll get up this time," and stumbling through the darkness to warm a bottle, or comfort a frightened child.

Romance is the anguish of waiting for the phone to ring to bring you a voice that will utter endearments. Love is the anguish of waiting for a call that will assure you someone else is safe.

Romance is flying. Love is a safe landing.

Romance is flattering attentions. Love is genuine thoughtfulness.

Romance is tingling excitement. Love is tenderness, constancy, being cherished.

Romance is suspense, anticipation, and surprise. Love is dependability.

Romance is delicious. Love nourishes.

Romance is fleeting. Love is long.
Our world is very deceived when it comes to the subject of love. Unfortunately, many Christians have also bought into the media's distorted and deceptive definition of love. C. S. Lewis said, "Love is not a feeling, it's a deep unity maintained by the will deliberately, strengthened by habit, and reinforced by the grace of God."

In Him,


Lloyd Pulley
Senior Pastor


The above is an excerpt from Lloyd Pulley's book, Walk in Love, Following God's Plan for Marriage.
To read the book in its entirety click on the link below: http://www.ccob.org/info/walkinlove.asp


 
  Love, God's Way - Song of Solomon (Pastor Lloyd Pulley)


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